As Mary J B once said, No more Drama, and seriously though, i'm done with that. Especially girl on girl, high school drama. It's suffocating when you've meet new people in a new city from different countries cos you don't know what to expect and you have to be careful what to say, when to say what, how to say it, cos you don't wanna offend anyone by saying something that could jeaopardize your new found friendship, cos everyone's got their own cultures and morals and shit!
But the things is, it's 2010!! It's the effing 21st century, you'd expect people to not be so principled, and guarded and acting all morally like they better than you and shit! That ain't cool.
Take some girls in my school for example, i don't wanna name any names. When i arrived in Shenyang 3 months ago, we all used to hang out pretty much everyday, they'd invite me for lunch, we'd go shopping, clubbing etc... but towards the beginning of September things started to go a lil down south, cos we discovered we probably weren't alike in a lot of ways, i'm free-spirited, one of them is a self proclaimed virgin-and i wanna stay that way-and marry a muslim man-girl, one's got a boo but still does what self proclaimed virgin says, then the other is a lil bit like me but can't be her self openly, cos of her other two country mate, i'm guessing.
The thing is this one who's a lil' like me, we'll call her Maria, has the hots for some guy, we'll call him Brian, so yesterdat, she decides she's gonna spend the whole day with Brian and takes off without telling her friends (only i know, cos obviously we're more alike) and she doesn't get back till today, so her country mates get mad at her cos she doesn't tell them where she went off to and they were worried, that's the official excuse. Except if they were really really worried, they wouldn't have come barging into my room demanding to know where she was at 9 o'clock in the morning, they'd have called her. Instead they involved almost everyone they knew, that way everyone would be on their side once they decided to gang up on poor Maria!
But we all know, they mad cos no guy hits on them, the way guys flock to Maria and they know they are not as open and easy-going and fun as she is... basically it's jealousy. what i wanna know is, what is up with girls who act this way? why can't we have more real girls who think like 'if i've got a problem with this girl, i'll tell her, so there's no friction between us'.
That's all to it.
If you've got a problem with a girl, who you'd call a friend or a sister, then you should also be able to go up to her and tell her when you've got a problem with her... cos then there'd only be DRAMA! and that ain't cool.
:)
But the things is, it's 2010!! It's the effing 21st century, you'd expect people to not be so principled, and guarded and acting all morally like they better than you and shit! That ain't cool.
Take some girls in my school for example, i don't wanna name any names. When i arrived in Shenyang 3 months ago, we all used to hang out pretty much everyday, they'd invite me for lunch, we'd go shopping, clubbing etc... but towards the beginning of September things started to go a lil down south, cos we discovered we probably weren't alike in a lot of ways, i'm free-spirited, one of them is a self proclaimed virgin-and i wanna stay that way-and marry a muslim man-girl, one's got a boo but still does what self proclaimed virgin says, then the other is a lil bit like me but can't be her self openly, cos of her other two country mate, i'm guessing.
The thing is this one who's a lil' like me, we'll call her Maria, has the hots for some guy, we'll call him Brian, so yesterdat, she decides she's gonna spend the whole day with Brian and takes off without telling her friends (only i know, cos obviously we're more alike) and she doesn't get back till today, so her country mates get mad at her cos she doesn't tell them where she went off to and they were worried, that's the official excuse. Except if they were really really worried, they wouldn't have come barging into my room demanding to know where she was at 9 o'clock in the morning, they'd have called her. Instead they involved almost everyone they knew, that way everyone would be on their side once they decided to gang up on poor Maria!
But we all know, they mad cos no guy hits on them, the way guys flock to Maria and they know they are not as open and easy-going and fun as she is... basically it's jealousy. what i wanna know is, what is up with girls who act this way? why can't we have more real girls who think like 'if i've got a problem with this girl, i'll tell her, so there's no friction between us'.
That's all to it.
If you've got a problem with a girl, who you'd call a friend or a sister, then you should also be able to go up to her and tell her when you've got a problem with her... cos then there'd only be DRAMA! and that ain't cool.
:)
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