So, I am a single black woman living in Shenyang, Liaoning and sometimes I crave the company of men, black men to be specific. And when that urge takes over, my friends and I hit up social hang-outs to see what and who is out there. And in this part of china there are a lot of black men. And to make it even better, a lot of Nigerian men, i'm not beefing the Caucasians or anything, but i love my meat... dark. Ok, as i was saying, the Nigerian men... so i go out and there are tons of them walking the streets of shenyang, in the supermarket, at the club, in church, in the universities... you get the picture. They are everywhere! Which i love, cos i'm thinking, i can have my pick. Choose one, flirt with the brotha a lil, get his digits and if possible, prolong the friendship until it blossoms into something more. Hopefully. But there is no hope! Why? Because, 1 out of 2 have a girlfriend or girlfriends. And they don't even date a sista, they're out there frolicking their goodies for other ethnicities, and no i'm not hating, i'm saying, they hating! They hating and they are the ones discrimanating against African women. They can't handle an African, educated, independent woman, so they go after the chinese. And then it's the good ones that get taken away, the doctors, the engineers, the scientist, the wel-bred, intelligent African men are the ones who already taken. Well, i've got news for all of you. These other woman that you'd rather date, these women, who you think won't give you drama, and who can rake in her own dough and not burden you financially, if you think it's gonna be happily ever after, you've got another thing coming. Sure in the beginning, there'll be courting, then love, then marriage, then she'll show you her true, glaring colors. She'll start by forbiding you to send money back home, then she'll stop making your food and maybe even forbid you from cooking or eating it in the house, she'll tell you where to work, who to hang out with, then she'll make you get a jont bank account so she keeps tracks of your savings, your casa will be hers, but don't even think it'll be vice versa and if you even dare hesitate or put up a fight you'll come home to find your house turned upside down, the house you bought and put in her name (cos your living in her country and didn't wanna pay extra taxes) will be gone, your kids, gone! Your bank accounts, cleared! You'll have nothing! All those years of building a life for yourself and 'family', all gone!! And for what? Because you wanted wavy-haired kids and a life abroad?!
Think on it.
Think on it.
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