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The Selfish Nigerian Woman Chronicles: Rants of a Burned-Out Woman Waking Up My vibe is: raw, real, relatable. I'm documenting the dismantling of old systems: marriage, motherhood myths, Nigerian expectations, capitalism, internalized guilt. I'm burning shame in public so others don’t burn in silence.. Not perfect. Just real ... mature, honest, occasionally funny, always liberating. Think Nigerian Aunty who's had enough

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Why I Thought I Was Cursed — But I Was Actually Healing

on June 02, 2025

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